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MUM'S DEFINITION OF BEAUTY

“Sometimes people are beautiful, not in looks, not in what they say, just in what they are’’ Markus Zusak. Growing up as a girl of nine (9), I came across the word, ‘inner beauty’ for the very first time. That word really got me thinking and even worried. I knew what beauty meant. To me then, beauty meant being tall, slim, light skinned, bright eyes, small and pink lips… but I pondered on the word, ‘inner beauty’. I wondered, “How can a person be beautiful inside? Does it mean the lungs, intestines, kidney and other internal organs are clean, free from impurities and just beautiful?” I took my confusion to my mother and she said, “Inner beauty is true beauty. It springs from within and radiates for all to see. It means a heart that’s pure, humble and wishes the good of others” That was my mother’s definition of inner beauty. Mum said you could have all the physical qualities that pass the test of beauty but that is physical beauty and that won’t take you far in life. Inner ...

EVERYTHING ELSE IS VAIN

EVERY DEED WE INVOLVE IN AND TERM ‘GOOD’ IS NOTHING WHEN LOVE IS NOT INVOLVED Today, like every other day, my mind has been busy thinking about so many things and even wandering sometimes but this thought about love…I decided to post. I’ve been thinking, why do people fight? Why is there so much hatred in our minds against one another? Why are leaders mean and ruthless? Why are the followers hateful and remorseless? Why do we keep getting and losing with the same intensity? Why is it that even those who give to charity, the human rights agitators, pastors and all others who seem to live just lives end up unhappy and their deeds unpleasing to their maker? The bible got my answers. The book of 1 st Corinthians 13 made so much meaning to me today than ever! Verses 1-3 says, “Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity. I am become a sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal; and though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and ...

TICK! TICK!!... DO QUICK!!!

Ever heard the Nursery rhyme, ‘Tick says the time tick tick; what you have to do do quick’? Or the popular statement that time waits for no one? How about ‘Do not do the right thing at the wrong time’? Have you ever heard that procrastination is the foundation of all failures? Or that the time is now? What about, “the bad news is time flies; the good news is you’re the pilot”? Or that “a man who dares waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life”? I tell you, a lot has been said about time, all pointing to its very importance. During my undergraduate days, one of our lecturers, Professor Ojebode once taught the class a poem by Robert Herrick. It goes this way, “Gather ye rosebuds while ye may; Old time is still a-flying; and this same flower that smiles today tomorrow will be dying”. Professor Ojebode made us recite this during every of his lecture periods. This, I believe was done to create a lasting awareness about the importance of time and time management i...

DIARY OF A TIRED GIRL AND LESSONS LEARNT

Today is 9 th  of October, 2016 and time is 11:30pm. I am lying on my bed this Sunday night feeling tired, very very tired. My tiredness is borne out of the various activities I had engaged myself in. I sat on my chair, computer on table with my eyes fixed to the computer screen. I had been on this for long hours now. I only got up when I needed to cook, brush, have my bath and then I continued the act. This feeling of fatigue! For the greater part of the last three months, this has been my routine. I remember having body aches sometime as a result. I had to visit the hospital for that but on this fateful night, I learnt my lesson. I cannot even believe I’m writing this. I tell you, I’m feeling so tired!  I've  been feeling dizzy, like…I’d fall to the ground and then…Halfway to writing this, I was called to join the rest of the family for our daily evening prayers. During the course of our prayer meeting, ‘Nepa’ took light. I’m back to my room feeling even worse b...